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New Business Cartoon

2012-01-28T11:18:00.003-05:00

65 Workplace Cartoons for only $10.00

Am I the only Catholic that feels this way???

2012-01-25T14:07:00.001-05:00

If anyone had asked me what to change first in our church it sure wouldn't have been the Roman Missal.

My Happy Teacher blog has been nominated for this award.

2012-01-19T19:23:00.001-05:00

This was quite a pleasant surprise. If you'd like to vote on Jan. 21 just click on the image below. Thanks. Mike

The #1 Quality a Woman Looks For in a Man

2012-01-14T09:01:00.000-05:00

The # 1 quality a woman looks for in a man is a sense of humor. I have asked women in my audiences if they agreed with this and they unanimously said YES. The question they say they all ask themselves is " Does he make me laugh?" If their answer is yes then they are more inclined to proceed with the relationship. Interesting!!! Men, want to improve your sense of humor? Visit Here

New Cartoon: How to tell if you need to be more assertive

2012-01-05T12:07:00.001-05:00

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Human Resources Cartoon

2011-12-29T11:43:00.001-05:00

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New Cartoon about Moses

2011-12-15T11:05:00.000-05:00

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Head in the Sand Cartoon BULLYING

2011-12-10T11:26:00.000-05:00

We frequently tell the world that children are our most treasured resource. We must start acing as if they were.

For Husbands Everywhere

2011-12-09T09:16:00.000-05:00

The Road Less Traveled

My Marriage has unraveled
Because of Robert Frost.
When I take the road less traveled
My wife insists I'm lost.
Bob McKenty

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New Anti-bullying Cartoon

2011-11-28T10:44:00.000-05:00

It is our collective and individual responsibility to care about the wellness and safety of every child. MIke Moore

A Thanksgiving Story To Remember

2011-11-21T08:19:00.001-05:00

I found this story on Speaker Bob Prentice's Mr Attitude Site

The Hand

Author Unknown

A Thanksgiving Day editorial in the newspaper told of a school teacher who asked her class of first-graders to draw a picture of something they were thankful for. She thought of how little these children from poor neighborhoods actually had to be thankful for. But she knew that most of them would draw pictures of turkeys or tables with food.

The teacher was taken aback with the picture Douglas handed in a simple childishly drawn hand.

But whose hand? The class was captivated by the abstract image.

"I think it must be the hand of God that brings us food," said one child.

"A farmer," said another, "because he grows the turkeys."

Finally when the others were at work, the teacher bent over Douglas' desk and asked whose hand it was.

"It's your hand, Teacher," he mumbled.

She recalled that frequently at recess she had taken Douglas, a scrubby forlorn child, by the hand. She often did that with the children. But it meant so much to Douglas.

Perhaps from this story, we can learn that one of the most important things that you and I can give someone is a hand that reaches out to them in love.

Click here for more on stories and storytelling Stories Touch Our Lives

Cartoon: If We are What We Eat Then...

2011-11-12T16:28:00.000-05:00

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Shattered Self Esteem

2011-11-07T22:31:00.005-05:00

When I was in my late teens something happened that shook me to my roots and yet started me on a journey to fulfillment that has resulted in me being the confident, person /motivational speaker I am today.

Let me tell you the story…I was 17 years old, 6’3” tall and weighed 129 pounds of rippling, power packed muscle. I really did look like a broomstick with glasses.

I was standing in front of a full length mirror combing my hair when my aunt, who was visiting from out of town, walked in front of me. She looked at me and said,” You know Mike it’s a damn good thing God gave you personality because he sure didn’t give you looks.” She laughed and moved on past me.

I just stood there in shock and disbelief not knowing what to say.

If you were standing in my place and heard these words directed at you how would you have felt?

I didn’t realize the long term impact her words would have on me during the coming years and how I would struggle to heal and grow beyond their bite.

For many years after I was married whenever my wife and I were dressed to go out on the town she would look at me with admiration and say, “Mike, do you ever look handsome.”

For a long time my response would be, “ Carol, I’m clean and I smell good but don’t get carried away.”

The lesson I learned from this is clear: We don’t always know how our words affect others. Once they leave our mouth it’s impossible to get them back and their negative, destructive impact can remain for years.

Because of this hurtful event I became committed to monitoring my mouth to make certain I didn’t hurt others in the name of trying to be funny. Being human, I sometimes fail but when I do I immediately say I’m sorry and get back on track.

I ask you …can you relate to this story? Has something like this ever happened to you? How did you handle it and how did you overcome the negative impact on your life?

This is just one of the stories from Embracing the Mystery ( Living the Life You Want)

For more wisdom and insight on living your life to the fullest and becoming the person you were meant to be
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A review of my popular book Embracing the Mystery ( now on Kindle)

2011-11-05T11:39:00.001-04:00

This type of review makes an author feel fantastic. Thought I would share it with you. Mike

This is a little jewel of a book, which contains a wealth of inspiration for living a happier, healthier, more fulfilling life. Moore provides tips for reducing stress, improving self-esteem, banishing fear, nurturing patience, and more. But more than that, he help us get back in touch with the sense of joy and wonder that so often gets buried under the busyness of daily life. The author is also a cartoonist and his casual writing style is enhanced by a generous dose of appropriate cartoons, which never fail to bring a smile to my lips, no matter how glum I'm feeling. This is one of those books to which I return whenever I feel like I need help becoming a better person.

Check it out here.

New Cartoon: What You Need to Succeed

2011-10-31T21:29:00.001-04:00

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Six Humorous Motivating Oneliners

2011-10-18T10:31:00.000-04:00

Optimism is a lot like electricity... nothing much happens without it.

Doctor to family of deceased patient: " He failed to achieve his wellness potential."

Willie Nelson's concept of leadership: Find a group heading in your direction and jump out in front of it.

" If it weren't for laughter we'd be a lot sicker than we are." Victor Borge

Men love women because they're wonderful. Women love men because chocolate can't mow the lawn.

Why is it that health club commercials never show people who look as if they need to be there?

For 101 Humorous Oneliners like thoses above Click Here

Never Throw This Kind of Party

2011-10-10T10:11:00.000-04:00

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Climbing the Listening Ladder

2011-10-07T22:42:00.001-04:00

I wrote in my book "Embracing the Mystery" that there was nothing as flattering or as rare as the undivided attention of another. The fact is that people just don't listen well. I think it was Mark Twain who wrote that a bore is someone who wants to talk about himself when I want to talk about myself.

How many times have you experienced someone asking you a question, not out of a genuine concern for what you have to say, but rather as an opportunity for them to flood you with their thoughts and opinions on an issue?

People have a hunger to be listened to- to have someone care enough to suspend their own agenda in the interest of another's. Sadly, such unselfish, attentive people are few..

I once had a man at a party come up to me and say that my wife, Carol was a terrific conversationalist. On the way home that same evening I told Carol what he had said and asked her what she did to give him that impression. She thought for a moment and said, "All I did was ask him questions about his life and listen to his answers. From his answers I asked more questions." Therein lies the secret to good conversation ...LISTENING WELL.

From Carol's insight I have developed what I call the listening ladder. Climb the listening ladder and you will be on your way to improved social interaction.

THE LISTENING LADDER

L. Look at the person speaking to you.. This alone sends out the message that you are focussed and involved.

A. Ask additional questions flowing from answers given to your original starting questions. Remember that you learn what to say by listening to what has been said.

D. Don't interrupt. The only time an interruption is acceptable is when you require clarification.

D. Don't change the subject. The speaker will indicate when they are finished their story.

E. Empathize with the speaker. Short phrases such as, "How interesting." "How exciting." "You must be so proud." Send the speaker the message that you are an empathic, caring listener.

R. Respond to what is said verbally and non-verbally. A simple nod or leaning slightly toward the speaker indicates interest and attention. Add to this such phrases as, "I see." "Really?" "Is that right?" and you enrich your response.

In conclusion I want to make something clear. Conversation is a two way affair. Most conversations are monologues conducted in the presence of an observer. If, after a reasonable period of time, the one speaking isn't willing to ask you a question and become a listener then conclude the interaction and move on. I usually give the one speaking ten minutes. If, after that time, they haven't asked me a question or my opinion I say something like, " It was nice chatting with you. Conversation MUST be reciprocal.

I like the story of the self-possessed Hollywood star who was heard saying to an admirer, "Enough about me talking about me. I'd like to hear you talk about me for awhile." There is a great deal of truth in this little story.
Good luck climbing the Listening ladder. The view from the top is fantastic.

For a copy of Mike's popular book " Embracing the Mystery" Click Here

Cartoon inspired by observing a young guy in the pouring rain.

2011-10-05T10:23:00.003-04:00

Once again I was sitting overlooking the golf course watching teenagers on their way to school in the pouring rain. I was inspired to write and draw this cartoon.

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New Cartoon: From Backpack to Briefcase

2011-09-29T10:56:00.001-04:00

I was sitting at the window watching the kids going back to school when I was inspired to write and draw this cartoon.

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New Cartoon: Never Raise Your Hand to a Child

2011-09-20T16:51:00.000-04:00

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New Cartoon SUV????

2011-09-09T11:38:00.001-04:00

New Cartoon on Sex and Aging

2011-08-29T20:44:00.001-04:00

For more on aging well with humor

How to Be Funny and Entertaining in Just 60 Minutes

2011-07-28T13:13:00.002-04:00

I can just hear you saying, “ Come on now, Mike , can you
really teach someone to be funny and entertaining in just 60
minutes?” The answer is a definite YES I CAN.

I can teach you the skills you need in 60 minutes. What I
can’t do is give you the courage to go out there and use the
skills in social situations. But I even try to help you with
this in the section on shyness and confidence.

There is no doubt that some people have the gift of humor and
wit in abundance. It seems to come naturally to them. The
danger many naturally gifted humorists face is hogging the
platform and not appreciating the humor of others.

While I love being in the presence of naturally funny people I
do begin to get irritated when they dominate the social
setting and don’t appreciate what others have to offer.

I don’t take a back seat to them. Neither should you. Just
look for an opening and jump in.

Even if you don’t have the gift to the same degree as others
you can still shine when it comes to humorous and entertaining
conversation.

Only you can provide the DESIRE, DETERMINATION AND REFUSAL TO
ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT SUCCESS.

So stay with me, read and digest my suggestions, practise them
daily and watch yourself transform into a humorous
entertaining social butterfly.

Everyone wants to be funny and entertaining when engaged in
social interaction but many have difficulty doing so. Join me
in unleashing your Humor Potential.

What’s Stopping You from Being Funny and Entertaining?

* Shyness
* Fear of failure
* Fear of looking foolish
* low self esteem and self image
* negative self talk
* Embarrassment
* You love your comfort zone

To achieve your Funny potential make friends with your
discomfort zone.

Force yourself to do what you are uncomfortable doing and
watch great things begin to happen.

Funny Types

When considering your funny potential you have to examine
yourself closely to determine how you relate to others
humorously. In my thinking there are 5 types of “ humorous”
people.

1. People who can entertain and make others laugh easily in
both large and small group settings.

2. People who can entertain and make others laugh in small
groups but not in larger ones.

3. People who appreciate the humor of others and laugh easily
but are not bold or confident enough to take the humor lead.

4. Those who think they’re real jokers but no one else does.
These people can be real pains when they try to be the
constant comic in every situation. When they tell a story
they drag it out tediously, get confused regarding details,
flow and sequence and when they do get to the punch line it
flops BIG TIME.

5. Very shy people who have a sense of humor but who just are
not comfortable or confident when it comes to general
conversation let alone making someone laugh.

No matter which of the above types you fit into there is
hope. I am sure that if you follow my suggestions you can
begin a process of emergence from whatever type you are into
the type you’d like to be.

For more info on How to Be Funny VISIT HERE

Top Ten Reasons to Put Laughter to Work for You By Mike Moore

2011-07-27T11:57:00.001-04:00

1. It cuts stress in half
2. Lowers blood pressure
3. Increases your energy
4. Promotes happiness
5. Stimulates the immune system
6. Promotes healing (physical and emotional)
7. Positive humor fosters a positive attitude
8. Promotes social flexibility
9. Increases endorphins ( feel good chemicals)
10. Bonds us to one another and reduces social conflict

More on Laughter and Humor Therapy HERE

New Cartoon: Forgetting Names

2011-07-25T20:26:00.000-04:00

How to Avoid Getting Old

How to Develop Platform Pizzazz

2011-07-15T07:57:00.001-04:00

Up Your Platform Pizzazz
By Mike Moore

People are drawn to a speaker with pizzazz, that spark of enthusiasm and excitement about life that makes being in their presence a joy. Speakers with pizzazz smile easily and often and laugh with great energy and pleasure. It feels good to be alive and in their company. You want to hear what they have to say and take home what they have to sell.

Speakers with pizzazz don't have to be loud and boisterous. They can be quietly positive and enthusiastic, appreciating the moment with whomever they happen to share it. They listen attentively, care deeply and respond to life and to others generously. They are gifts to any audience.

The late Leo Buscaglia, a man of great pizzazz, tells of meeting a woman who lacked this gift. She had a perpetual angry frown on her face and was miserable most of the time. Leo looked at her and asked how she was feeling. She glared at him and barked, " Just fine!!" " Good, now if you would only tell that to your face," Leo replied.

How to Develop Your own Pizzazz

You have to want to.
Associate with positive, happy, enthusiastic people.
Begin looking at life and speaking about it optimistically.
Develop a sense of humour. Remember, you aren't born with a sense of humour you develop it.
People are attracted to those with a keen sense of humour so become a HUMOUR HOUND. Look for humour everywhere and enjoy it when it is discovered.
Avoid negative self talk. Speak positively to yourself about yourself and to others about themselves.
Show an genuine interest in the people you are with.
Learn to enjoy the present moment. Audiences respond positively to a speaker who obviously enjoys being with them at that moment.
Be enthusiastic about everything and everyone.
Have fun. Life is too short not to.

** This is a brief excerpt from my 60 minute audio/ebook " Improving Your Platform Pizzazz" Check it out here

“ 8 Effective Ways To Be Humorous and Entertaining” By Mike Moore

2011-07-09T19:35:00.000-04:00

“Everyone wants to be able to make people laugh and it really isn’t that difficult .” says international speaker/humorist Mike Moore. “ All you need to do is learn a few skills and you’re on your way.”

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

PRLog (Press Release) – Feb 18, 2010 – Moore speaks throughout Canada and the USA on Humor and Human Health and Relationships and is a strong believer in the social and health benefits of humor and laughter.

According to Moore, laughter is social glue because it bonds people to one another and social lubricant because it reduces conflict in human relationships.

“ Moore believes that people who can make others laugh have a lot of friends and a full social calendar. And the best part is that a sense of humor and the ability to make people laugh can be learned.”

Moore, The author of “ How to Be Humorous and Entertaining in Any Situation,” offers these tips:

1. Become a humor hound. Start looking for the comedy in the chaos around you.

2. Carry a notebook and pen with you at all times and record every funny thing you see and hear.

3. Collect humorous one-liners and inject them into your conversations.

4. Learn to laugh at yourself and share your foibles with others. “ If you can laugh at yourself you will be perpetually amused.” “ If you can’t laugh at yourself you leave the job to someone else.”

5. Learn to tell a great story. Keep them short and sweet. Use a sound recorder to polish your storytelling skills.

6. Start hanging out with humorous, happy people and learn from them.

7. Watch funny movies and sitcoms, read funny books and collect cartoons.

8. Saturate your life with positive humor and laughter.

“ They deserve paradise who can make another laugh.” ( proverb)

Moore believes that people become what they think about so to become humorous and entertaining think humorous thoughts and be willing to share them with others at every opportunity.

For more information about his humor manual visit here

Audio Clip: Become a Humor Hound

2011-07-09T11:04:00.001-04:00

Here is an audio clip from one of my talks "Light Up With Laughter" on becoming a Humor Hound. LISTEN HERE

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How to Bring about Change Without Sending Your Staff to A Shrink By Mike Moore

2011-07-09T07:48:00.002-04:00

It seem that the only time people are open to change is when what they have always done no longer works for them. In other words when our needs are no longer being met by previous behaviors, thought patterns or procedures.

Your task as a CEO or manager is to show your staff that this applies to your business as well. When certain procedures and practices no longer meet the needs of your business or organization change is needed.

To facilitate this change you must show respect for both the needs of the business and employees. When your business needs for increased efficiency, profitability and productivity take priority over the needs of your staff you are bound to increase stress and create resistance to any proposed change. There must be a balance between the two.

Here are thirteen suggestions to help you bring about change without sending your entire staff to a Psychiatrist.

1. Keep your staff informed especially when the change you want to effect is going to impact them personally. Explain the why and the how of your decision to change.

2. Stress how the proposed change will benefit your employees. When people begin to perceive a forthcoming change as a definite benefit to them and when they feel a sense of ownership in the process they more eagerly participate in, welcome and adapt to any changes made. Ownership
and participation are essential. People are motivated by " What's in it for me?"

3. When your staff perceives a specific change as something done to them without consultation and input they build resistance instead of co-operation.

4. Get your people involved in the planning and the implementation of any change.

5. If you do ask for input from your staff make sure you use some of their suggestions. If you ask for input and ignore any suggestions given you will stop the flow of participation dead in its tracks.

6. Provide adequate training and practice in any new procedures. This is required to develop a new comfort level and replace the old. It usually takes about four weeks to develop a new habit so provide adequate training with this in mind. Don't just give a 4 hour seminar on a new procedure or technology and expect everyone attending to be proficient after one or two sessions. Invite them to tell you when they feel comfortable and confident with the new change.

7. Have a mentoring program set up until a new comfort and confidence level is achieved. Training the trainers and having them available and easily accessible is vital. Have your mentors offer tutorials on request.

8. Never assume that you as a CEO or managers have all the wisdom and insight on any issue. Remember that wisdom is cumulative and resides within the collective. When my wisdom and insights are added to those of others we become wisdom and insight rich. This is when great things begin to happen.

9. Never rush into change. Look upon it as a process involving information, discussion and patience. When you give it time you get the results you want plus a strong commitment from your people.

10. Avoid the bandwagon. A lot of workplace change is initiated by a manager or supervisor getting excited about some new program or technology after attending a conference. They return thinking they have found the motherload. Always research any new idea. Test drive it with a few willing volunteers and then make a decision as to whether you want to commit to full implementation based on their response to the test drive.

During a speech on workplace stress to a group of office workers recently I asked what the most stressful part of their job was. The vast majority said supervisors and managers who discover new software to make their jobs easier and just when they are getting used that new technology the same supervisors discover something else to make their jobs easier. It seems to be never ending. They also claimed that in-service on the new software took them away from their jobs and caused them to fall father and farther behind.

11. People are resistant to change and must be shown that any new way of doing things is going to make their lives less stressful and more enjoyable. Never forget that people are motivated by the search for pleasure and the avoidance of pain.

12. Affirm, appreciate and praise your employees frequently especially during the period of change implementation. Appreciation and praise are powerful human motivators.

13. Foster a climate of humor in the workplace. People working in a climate of humor and employment enjoyment are more flexible and open to change.

" The only change people are comfortable with this the change that jingles in their pocket."

Mike Moore is a leading authority on Humor and Human Health and Potential.

The Healing, Comforting and Inspiring Power of Nature

2011-07-07T14:08:00.000-04:00

There is nothing that calms my spirit and fills me with joy and peace more than observing the natural world in all its wonder and beauty. When I stand in the solitude of a moonlight night or watch the sun set on the sea or a monarch butterfly quietly land on a flower I am filled with the peace and wonder only nature can provide. It also gives my spirit a sense of continuity and mystery along with the feeling that there is so much more beyond the horizon than we can ever imagine. ( From How to Avoid Getting Old)

Short Video Humor and Attitude and the Quest for Happiness

2011-06-30T12:19:00.001-04:00

Hi. I have just posted a short video of a performance I gave at the Sanderson Centre in Brantford Ontario Canada a few years ago. Thought you might like to take a peek. Enjoy.
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A New Look at Boat Rockers

2011-06-29T13:34:00.003-04:00

A friend of mine applied for a more senior position within an organization where he had worked for 20 years. He didn't get the job and when he asked why he was told, " Well you have been a bit of a boat rocker you know." That response inspired this cartoon.

How to Tame The Toxic People in Your Life

2011-06-27T20:54:00.001-04:00

In my travels across North America speaking on motivation and human potential I hear the same question asked repeatedly, " How can I become more assertive?" There is no doubt about it, there are people in our lives who are harmful to our health and we don't like it one bit.
I read recently that toxic people make up about ten percent of the population and cause over 50 percent of all relational damage. For our own well-being and the well-being of those we care about we must learn how to cope with these toxic people at home, at work and at play.

I wrote the following report in response to the question, "How can I learn to cope with the difficult people in my life?" From the reaction I have had to this report it is proving helpful. I do want to say emphatically that what you read here won't do a thing to improve your situation unless you have the courage to use the suggestions given. Go for it! You're worth the effort.

TOXIC PEOPLE.........

rob us of our dignity.

destroy our self confidence.

increase our stress levels.

destroy our morale.

erode our self esteem.

foster negativity.

decrease productivity.

make life hellish.

are abusive.

are toxic because they can get away with it and it works for them.

HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXIC PEOPLE

Remember that you can't change toxic people, but you can learn to cope with them. Here are some effective strategies to try.

* Always stand at eye level with the person you are confronting. Never have them standing over you looking down.

* Respect the toxic person and always expect respect in return. Settle for nothing less.

* Remain calm.

* Listen attentively.

* Don't argue or interrupt, just listen.

* Don't accuse or judge, just state how you feel.

* If the toxic person tries to verbally bully you, just say, " I don't allow people to treat me this way." Then slowly and calmly walk away.

* When someone is being toxic to you here is a powerful response and one that is easy to use because you don't have to say a word. In the midst of a toxic attack just PAUSE....LOOK AT THE PERSON, WITHOUT EMOTION......TURN AND WALK AWAY. It works!

* Anger is sometimes a valid response.

* If all else fails you might be left with only one option; to separate yourself from the toxic person in your life.

YOU DON'T EXIST TO BE SOMEONE'S PERSONAL GARBAGE DUMP.

This is an excerpt from Mike's manual The Art of Verbal Self Defence. http://motivationalplus.com/cgi/a/t.cgi?bullies

What Can You Say After That?

2011-06-23T10:08:00.004-04:00

I noticed that my gas gauge was pushing empty and decided to
pull into a service station to fill up.

A nice young man about 35 years of age began filling the tank
as I made small talk to pass the time.

He had a rather sad look about him so I said, " How are things
going, Buddy?" He looked at me and replied, " Other than the
fact that I'm living from pay to pay, making minimum wage and find it impossible to get a woman to go out with me....Fantastic.

What do you say after that?

More Stories HERE

God's Waiting Room? Not For Me

2011-06-21T08:32:00.001-04:00

After delivering a lively speech on " Going for the Gusto " ( Living, to the Max, the Only Life You Have) I was approached by a young man named Marty who said that he wished his parents had been in the audience. It seems his parents, who had just turned 70 and were in good physical health, had given up on life and were just waiting to die.

" They really needed to hear your positive, uplifting message but I didn't realize the talk would be like this." We chatted for a few minutes and I gave him a Free copy of my book for his parents. I do hope they read it and have their life batteries recharged BIG TIME.

The tragedy is that there are far too many people like Marty's parents in "God's waiting room. " What we need to do is empty God's waiting room and fill up God's Play Room.

Enjoy life at every age

How To Promote Your Business with Public Speaking By Mike Moore

2011-06-17T08:35:00.001-04:00

We all know that word of mouth is the best and most effective form of advertising. People experience your service or product, like what they experience and tell others about you. The only problem with this is that it occurs sporadically between two individuals or small groups thus taking a lot longer the get the word out and build your reputation.

There is a way to supercharge the word of mouth process by getting a lot more people experiencing your service or product at one time and it involves public speaking. I know you would rather die than stand up in front of a group and speak. BUT stay with me and you just might change your mind when you consider the benefits of promoting your business with public speaking without cost to you..

Why is Public Speaking So Effective As a Business Promotional Tool?

It gives your audience a chance to experience your expertise and your personality up close and personal as they say. If they like what they hear and see and if they feel a connection with you they will either hire you and/or tell the world about you and your service.

How to Proceed

In every city there are many associations, service clubs, support groups, health care organizations etc. in dire need of speakers for their monthly meetings or annual banquets. Check your telephone directory or regional community directory published by your local newspaper for group names and contact information.

Once you have selected the groups you would like to present to, call them and ask for the name of the person in charge of lining up speakers. They will be happy to hear from you as their job is difficult and they will appreciate your offer to speak free of charge.

1. Outline your talk to the person in charge of getting speakers.

2. Stress how your presentation will benefit their members.

3. Prepare your presentation to solve a problem for your listeners. Suggest concrete solutions.

4. Put your presentation topic in the form of a " How to" title.

Examples : How to Bully Proof Your Children.

Five Ways to Protect Your Computer from Hackers

5. Don't make your talk too self promotional. This will turn off your audience. One or two references to your business during your talk will be fine. Avoid having more than that.

6. Make sure you provide great practical, usable information.

7. Suit your topic to the group. If you have a computer service business and you are talking to a P.T.A. group a great talk would be " Ten Ways to Protect Your Children From Child Predators on the Internet"

8. Be enthusiastic about your topic. Enthusiasm is contagious and memorable.

9. Use humor within your talk. If you can't tell a humorous story then collect and use humorous one liners related to your theme.

* To receive a free copy of my 35Best One-liners mailto:oneliners@sendfree.com

10. Near the end of your presentation invite your audience to pick up a copy of a tip sheet you prepared and brought with you related to your topic. At the end of the tip sheet put your contact information plus a statement inviting them to copy the tip sheet and give it to anyone they think would be interested. All you ask is that they copy the tip sheet as is with your contact information in tact.

11. You can also indicate on the tip sheet and orally that you are available to speak to any group they think would benefit from your message.

12. Have your business card and any relevant promotional material as part of a handout for audience members. Invite them to pick up a package before they leave.

13. At the end of your talk say, " I will be glad to stay around at the conclusion of the evening to answer any questions you may have.

14. If you have an on-line newsletter or a special report related to the topic of the evening offer to send them a copy if they would leave either their business card or their email address. When you get home make sure you send them what you offered. Be sure to keep their email addresses on file for future contact.

15. If you are good, the word will spread and you will start getting calls to speak. When this happens you can start charging a fee for your speaking services.
When I started charging for my speaking services I did 50 in one year for $200 per speech. Now I do 40 or 50 a year for between $1800 and $2500 plus expenses. I get well paid to speak and I still reap the benefits of word of mouth advertising.

Conclusion

If you have a fear of public speaking don't let it stop you from benefitting from the promotional value of giving presentations. Remember you only overcome your fears by confronting them head on. When you conquer your fear of speaking in public you will have at your disposal a powerful and effective publicity tool. And you won't have to pay out one penny.

If you want to promote your business giving free speeches or if you want to promote your business with the thought of eventually getting well paid to do it Visit Here for more information.

Mike Moore is an international speaker on Humor in the Workplace and Humor and Stress Management. He also gives seminars on Public Speaking for Profit and Pleasure. http://www.motivationalplus.com

New Cartoon We Are What We Think???

2011-06-14T08:25:00.000-04:00

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10 Positive Power Attitudes

2011-06-13T20:25:00.000-04:00

The ability to achieve our enormous untapped potential is directly related to the attitudes we possess. Positive attitudes empower us to achieve while negative attitudes tend to keep us rooted where we are.

A Harvard study followed a group of graduates over an extended period of time and found that 85% of what they achieved in the areas of wealth and position was the result of attitude while 15% was the result of aptitude.

I think the message is clear. Change your negative attitudes to positive and great things begin to happen.

Here are a few stories of people with power attitudes. I hope that in reading them you will begin to see that your life can be more enjoyable and productive by committing to a change of attitude.

* Walt Disney once said, " Never forget that all this started with a mouse."

* The great thing about being old is that you can sing in the bathroom while brushing your teeth.

* Anyone who says that money can't buy happiness just doesn't know where to shop.

* If a cat could speak it would probably say, " Hey, I don't see a problem here."

* Thomas Edison once remarked, " I haven't failed ten thousand times. I have successfully discovered ten thousand ways that didn't work."

* On older woman looking in the mirror was heard to remark," Isn't it wonderful that wrinkles don't hurt?"

* We can all learn a great deal from the young, beautiful, confident nurse who deducted ten beats per minute from the pulse of every one of her male patients.

* After examining the knee of an 80 year old patient, the doctor concluded that the pain she was experiencing was simply due to age. The patient looked at the doctor and said, " But my other knee is the same age and it doesn't hurt."

* I like the story of the 85 year old woman who, upon looking into the mirror at her wrinkled face, remarked, " They sure don't make mirrors like they used to."

* When Agatha Christie was asked how she like being married to an archeologist she replied, that it was wonderful because the older she got the more interested in her he became.

As I say in my talks on the power of a positive attitude, Change your attitude and you will change your life. Remember that we are the products of the attitudes we possess. Good luck.

Mike Moore is an international speaker on Humor and Stress Management, Humor in the Workplace and Humor and Human Potential. His articles and cartoons have appeared in publications throughout Canada and the U.S.A.

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Seven Effective Ways to Preach to Your Child And Have them Love It

2011-06-11T16:59:00.001-04:00

There are three things that all young people strongly dislike.
1. Being preached to
2. Being put down by others, especially parents and teachers
3. Being yelled at

As parents we know how difficult it can be to refrain from doing all three. When we’re angry things just come out and we regret them right after the deed is done. Thank God for the phrase “I’m sorry.”

We all seem to have a strong tendency to preach at our kids. And why shouldn’t we? We were on the receiving end of preaching for a long time when we were kids. Now it’s our turn.

The main reason why we should never preach at our children is this: It doesn’t work. As much as we want them to listen and follow our words of wisdom and advice, they won’t.

Well friends I have found the secret to preaching without them considering it preaching. In fact they will actually enjoy it and it will do a lot to bond you to one another.

“What’s the secret?” I hear you asking excitedly!

It’s quite simple. Storytelling.

Ever since we were children we have had a hunger for stories. “ Tell me a story Mommy.” Tell me a story Daddy.” were words that came out of our mouths at least once a day.

Our love of stories doesn’t stop when we leave childhood. I read recently that adults listen to over 60,000 stories a year. This doesn’t seem unreasonable when you consider that every conversation, every newspaper and newscast involves the telling of and listening to stories. Every time we ask someone what they’ve been up to or how things are going we are requesting a story.

Here are 7 surefire tips on using stories to preach to your children and have them love it.

1. Don’t begin a story with “ Once Upon a time…” unless you’re dealing with very young children.

2. Become aware of stories with a message while you read , listen and view the media.

3. When you find a story you can use jot the story line down in few words.

4. Practice telling the story in your own words. Feel free to embellish the story to suit your situation.

5. When you tell the story let it speak to the listener.

6. You can ask a question related to the story when you’re finished but don’t try to condition their response. Just listen.

7. Keep your stories short and crisp. Don’t get bogged down in detail.

Start by identifying the values and ideals your family cherishes and affirms and then start looking for stories.

If you want to learn more on how to become a master storyteller why not visit HERE

Mr. Moore, Do You Remember Telling the Story About Josephine?

2011-06-10T07:21:00.001-04:00

Why Telling Stories is a Must For Teachers, Speakers and Parents

I once met a former student I hadn't seen since his senior year in High School. After we made the usual comments about how nice it was to see one another he looked at me and said, " Mr. Moore, do you remember telling us the story about Josephine?" I replied, " Yes I do. Don't tell me you remember that story after all these years?" He then proceeded to tell me the entire story in detail. I couldn't believe it.

I'm sure he couldn't tell me anything about the academic content I covered in his senior year, but he recalled every detail of that story. It was amaziing.

Note: The story was used to get my students discussing a relevant issue within society...Racism.

My belief in the power of story to promote attenion and retention was validated then and continues to be in my contact with audiences throughout North America.

If you want to teach a lesson that will be recalled long after you are gone, tell a story.

For more on the Art of Storytelling plus a free copy of my 30 Life Lesson Stories CLICK HERE

Doris Had the Secret to Parenting Teenagers and I Wanted It!

2011-06-06T08:24:00.000-04:00

" When I first met Doris she had been recently widowed at the young age of 45.

She was now the single parent of three active teenaged boys and whatever she was doing she was doing right. Her boys obviously loved and respected her and enjoyed every minute in her company.

What was her secret?? I needed to know as I was the father of three sons on the verge of becoming teens and I wanted the relationship with my sons that Doris had with hers.

I thought taking her to lunch would provide the ideal opportunity to tap her parenting wisdom so I extended the invitation and she accepted.

When the moment was right I made my move.
" Doris, you have such a great relationship with your sons. What's your secret? "

She smiled and said, " Mike it's really quite simple.
See everything,
overlook a lot,
change what you can and
know when to shut your mouth and listen."

Doris died much too young but what a legacy she left behind for her family and mine.

I have tried to make her message the core of my family life and my teaching with some difficulty and much success. ( I still have a tendency to want to preach.)

For more info on parenting teens so that you become friends when it's all over CLICK HERE

Five Effective Ways to Beat the Blues By Mike Moore

2011-06-04T15:42:00.003-04:00

As Neil Diamond sang in his song "Song Sung Blue" “ Me and you are subject to the blues now and then...” Awe the blues!! Those feelings of joylessness, hopelessness, and blahness.

They usually occur after a happy event, on the occurrence of something sad or simply for no other reason than it’s winter and we’re tired of it. They can also be brought on by a nostalgic trip down memory lane especially at Christmas or New Years. When we remember with fondness the “ good old days” and remain too long with our memories we run the risk of a bout with the blues.

I always say that the past is a wonderful place to visit but a dangerous place to stay. Whenever the blues come they can suck the joy out of life and give new meaning to the word “down”.

Here are five ways to effectively combat the blues and win every time.

1. Put the blues in perspective.

It helps to remember that the blues are merely feelings - feelings that flow from our dominant thoughts and just like any other feelings, they pass. When we feel affectionate it passes. We don’t feel affectionate all the time. When we’re angry, the anger passes. The same applies to the blues. You’ll find that they pass more quickly if you don’t dwell on them. Just relax and wait for them to pass. While waiting here are a few effective strategies you can apply to ensure their quick passage.

2. Thought Replacement

If the blues come from our negative thoughts and we are able to control the thoughts we have then whenever we have a fearful, disturbing, lonely ,or depressing thought visualize it leaving your mind and being replaced by a happier more enjoyable one. Create a bank of happy, pleasant thoughts to use as replacements.

3. Forget yourself in the service of others.

I think it was Tennyson who said “ We must lose ourselves in action lest we whither in despair.” He was suffering the loss of a dear friend and found that serving others helped him forget his grief for awhile and helped him heal. There is nothing more effective than forgetting yourself in the service of others to banish the blues. “ I had the blues because I had no shoes when upon the street I met a man who had no feet.”

4. Learn how to relax.

Frequently the blues make an appearance when we are stressed and over-extended. Physical and mental relaxation help restore calmness and peace to our frantic lives and in the process enhance our resistance to the blues. By the way laughter is an excellent way to cut stress in half and promote healing relaxation. It is impossible to worry when we laugh and worry is one of the major stress inducers.

5. Look for the comedy in your chaos.

Funny things happen to us everyday. When they do most of us give a brief chuckle and move on with life. In my book “ Light Up With Laughter” I teach the art of “Mining the Moment” whereby I encourage my readers to extract every ounce of humor from the funny things that happen to us daily. When you do this and give yourself permission to laugh heartily and enjoy fully you reap the many therapeutic benefits laughter provides. It helps to constantly recall that life is just too serious to be taken seriously.

As the song says,the blues come to us all now and then. They are just part of the human condition. The next time you have the blues try some of these suggestions and experience how you too can combat the blues and win.

Mike Moore is an international speaker on " Humor and Stress Management and " Humor in the Workplace" He travels throughout North America giving speeches and seminars to business groups and organizations. His writing and cartoons have appeared in newspapers and magazines throughout Canada and the U.S.A. He works out of Brantford ON Canada

10 Ways to Improve Your People Skills By Mike Moore

2011-06-01T17:04:00.001-04:00

1. Develop an interest in people and become other oriented.
2. Know what people need and then try to meet those needs.
3. Ask about their family and be genuinely interested in their answer.
4. Find people doing something right and praise them generously.
5. Believe in the collective wisdom of the group.
6. Talk in terms of a person’s main interest....THEMSELVES.
7. Always look directly at the person you are speaking to.
8. Laugh at yourself. When you do you give people permission to laugh at themselves.
9. Start believing that people are your most valuable resource.
10. Always give credit, don’t take credit.
PLUS.... MUCH MUCH MORE

For more people skills CLICK HERE

10 Quick Ways to Relax During Your Busy Day

2011-05-31T09:58:00.001-04:00

Simple effective stress busting strategies based on humor and relaxation

10 WAYS TO RELAX DURING YOUR BUSY DAY By Mike Moore

1. Take three deep breaths slowly. It really works to relax the body and mind.

2. Relax the tongue. Usually the tongue is held tightly against the teeth. Free it up in the mouth so it can just rest there without tension.

3. Take one minute vacations. In your mind visit places where you find peace and stillness. Picture yourself there soaking up the beauty and solitude.

4. Relax your facial muscles. When we are tense we frown and squint which adds to the tension. Tell your facial muscles to relax and they will. Try to maintain this relaxed face throughout the day.

5. Move slowly. When you find yourself rushing for no reason, SLOW DOWN.

6. Laugh more. Laughter cuts stress and promotes relaxation.

7. Listen to beautiful music. Mozart calms the restless spirit.

8. Watch and enjoy the sunset.

9. Visualize yourself as a balloon being inflated. As you breathe in, the balloon fills with your stress and tension. Then breathe out all the stress and tension leaving yourself limp and relaxed.

10. Enjoy the rhythm and beauty of nature for its lessons are patience and peace.

RELAX FOR EASY POWER.

REMEMBER THAT RECREATION ISN'T RELAXATION, IT'S DIVERSION.

** This tip sheet is taken from Mike's popular stress manual " You Know You're Stressed Out When..."

What Kind of Leader Are You? By Mike Moore

2011-05-22T08:51:00.001-04:00

There are literally millions of words written and spoken each week on enlightened leadership yet the fact remains that low morale, high stress and job dissatisfaction continue to be three of the most serious problems facing the workplace. We seem to be so effectively socialized into top down leadership that we find it extremely difficult, if not impossible, to change our autocratic ways. All this in spite of the many workshops and seminars on new leadership paradigms which are rooted in the empowerment of people.

Change is both slow and painful but it is happening. To facilitate this process of change requires both desire and commitment plus a sound understanding of what an enlightened leader looks like. It is necessary to visualize the type of leader we are striving to become.

AN ENLIGHTENED LEADER...

* values the ideas and opinions of others.

* listens attentively.

* affirms generously

* criticizes gently and privately.

* trusts the collective wisdom of the group.

* encourages others to achieve their enormous untapped potential.

* catches people doing things right.

* involves people in decisions which affect their destiny.

* keeps people informed.

* has a sense of humour.

* trusts the decisions of others.

* realizes that his/her opinion is just one among many.

* isn't threatened when people disagree with them.

* rejects the " my way or the highway" paradigm.

* cares about the total well being of those with whom she/he works.

* believes that the most valuable inventory of any business is people.

* seeks out and acts upon the advice of others.

* gives credit rather than takes credit.

These are a few of the characteristics of an enlightened leader which, if present in the workplace, result in decreased stress, improved morale and increased productivity.

It is in the best interest of any business to care about the well being of its employees.

Mike Moore speaks throughout Canada and the United States on the physical and social benefits of humor. " Humor makes great things happen." MM

Mike's website

Teacher Boosting Kit

2011-05-19T15:53:00.002-04:00

ATTENTION TEACHERS!! Teachers everywhere are in need of boost in so many areas... morale, assertiveness, confidence, self esteem, charisma and joy. Not to mention stress management. Why not take a look at my Teacher Boosting Kit and order yours Now. It will be the best investment you make. CLICK HERE

New Life Lesson Cartoon

2011-05-18T10:17:00.000-04:00

For more Life Lesson Cartoons CLICK HERE

I kept telling this to my Dad but he just couldn't do it...

2011-05-05T08:25:00.001-04:00

In the last ten years of his life my Dad lived in the past. Every question he asked was an opportunity to share stories from his past.

For more Life Lesson Cartoons CLICK HERE

Teacher Appreciation Week Cartoon

2011-04-30T11:01:00.001-04:00

The first week of May is Teacher Appreciation Week in the USA. Here is a cartoon on the subject. Most of our teachers do a great job under difficult circumstances Write one a note of thanks and appreciation...or send them a copy of this cartoon along with your note.

For More on Teacher Appreciation

You've Got to Laugh ( Cartoons for Teachers) is now on Kindle for only $4.95 Check it out here.

New cartoon on relationships

2011-04-28T20:30:00.001-04:00

More cartoons

A Public Speaking Pioneer

2011-04-25T10:16:00.002-04:00

I would like to introduce you to Heather Stubbs, a woman who believes strongly in the need for improved oral communication skills among young people and adults.

If you have ever listened to teenagers talk you know that the need for improved speaking skills is huge. Just the other day I listened to a group of teens and lost count of the number of times I heard the word LIKE used in their brief conversation.

If there is a teacher reading this it would serve you and your students well to get in touch with Heather and tap into her ideas and strategies to make oral communication a priority for all people.

She really does believe that when one speaks well one does well.

Here is an intro to Heather Stubbs...

Heather Stubbs is an engaging, passionate and proficient public speaker,
presentation skills trainer and coach. In her 30-year career as a singer and actress, she mastered not only the outer skills of expressiveness and
engaging stage presence, but the inner skills of self-assurance and nerves
management. "What's going on inside inevitably affects what happens on the
outside." Having freed herself from "stage fright" she is passionate to help others find the same freedom. She draws on her depth of knowledge and
on-stage experience to help speakers increase their confidence, charisma and connection.

Join Heather for her interactive and fun workshop, "SPEAK UP! How to Talk So People Listen". Participants work together in small and large groups,
speaking and listening, supporting and encouraging, laughing and growing.
SPEAK UP! provides the perfect combination of learning, sharing and practice to build team spirit and improve your presentation skills to help get your message across.

As a keynote speaker, Heather's contagious enthusiasm and warmth make every
audience member feel she is speaking directly to them. A model of the
audience engagement she teaches, Heather will inspire you to
"Be the Speaker You Were Born to Be".

Heather's Blog "Tips on Talking" www.tipsontalking.com

www.skilltime.ca
heather@skilltime.ca
905-344-5045

Cartoon For Every Tall Speaker Who Flies Economy

2011-04-24T13:56:00.002-04:00

I always fly economy class to save the meeting planners money but there is always this problem for a guy 6'4" tall. It becomes even more of a problem when the person in front of you puts his/her seat back.

MORE CARTOONS

Free sample of You Know You're Stressed Out When...

2011-04-21T15:32:00.000-04:00

Click HERE to access your free sample. Enjoy Mike

New Cartoon for Your Enjoyment

2011-04-20T13:49:00.001-04:00

Thought you'd get a kick out of this one.

Mike

How to Parent Teenagers and Stay Sane

New Story: Will We Never Learn??

2011-04-11T10:17:00.000-04:00

In an ancient and far away city there lived two successful and
very competitive merchants who hated one another and were
constantly trying to better the other.

One night a messenger from God visited one of the merchants
and told him that he was instructed to grant him one wish and
one wish only.

There was only one condition attached to the granting of the
wish. Whatever the merchant wished for, his hated competitor
would receive double his wish.

The merchant pondered his decison while the messenger waited
patiently.

After a short time the merchant looked at the angel with a
slight smile on his face and said, " Make me blind in one eye."

Storytelling Tip Don't try to explain the story to your audience. Let the story speak to the listener/reader.

Become a fantastic storyteller

New Story: Lesson From An Aged Mother

2011-04-10T08:13:00.001-04:00

A son went to visit his 85 year old mother in a nursing home
to take her for a drive in the country. As they were leaving
her room he noticed that she had forgotten her cane. " Don't
forget your cane, Mom," he said.

She looked at him sternly and told him, in no uncertain
terms, that it wasn't a cane. It was a walking stick.

"What's the difference?" the son asked.

She quickly replied, " A cane speaks of disability while a
walking stick speaks of ability."

CASE CLOSED!!!

I was the son in the story. Mom died July 18, 2008 at the wonderful age of 94. What an attitude she had.

More Stories Here

The Secrets to Power Storytelling Revealed

Free Copy of 101 Humorous Oneliners

2011-04-09T17:46:00.001-04:00

Just send me a blank email and I'll send you my popular 101 Humorous Oneliners by autoresponder

Let me Tell You a Story...What Will Be Your Reality?

2011-04-09T15:24:00.002-04:00

Two women turned seventy about the same time and were both
engaged in deciding how they would spend their remaining
years.

One decided to prepare for death and started selling her
belongings just keeping what she absolutely needed. She sold
her house and moved into a condo and just started to take life
easy.

The other woman named Hulda Crooks took a path less travelled.
She started training in preparation for grand adventures.

Where did her path take her?

Hulda Crooks became the first 91 year old woman to
successfully climb Mount Fugi in Japan.

The Secrets to Power Storytelling Revealed

Our Need For Silence in a Noisy World

2011-04-08T09:06:00.000-04:00

It is quite evident that we are living in one terribly noisy world and it seems to be getting worse every day. Everywhere we go we are accosted by loud, unwanted sound. When we enter elevators, malls and restaurants we are engulfed by musak. I recently had lunch at a popular restaurant and found the background music so loud that it interfered with normal conversation and the enjoyment of my lunch. When I asked the waitress if she could turn the music off, or at least down, she said, " I don't think we can." Surely we as a people are still in charge of volume controls.

How to Make a Friend of Silence

* Make a conscious commitment to the experience and appreciation of silence.

* Go for a walk in nature. Let the silence soothe your spirit.

* When you are alone in your residence turn off all noise making appliances. Begin with fifteen minutes of silence and gradually increase the duration.

* Learn how to meditate and schedule a ten minute meditation period once or twice a day. Gradually extend your meditation time.

* When driving to work, turn off your car radio and drive in silence.

* Go camping for an night by yourself. Find a quiet campground where they don't allow people to blast their music without consideration for others. I usually go solo camping for one week each year to be alone and silent in the outdoors. It has become something I eagerly look forward to.

* Drive to a lake at sunset and rent a canoe. Paddle slowly along the shoreline observing the silent sights and the gentle sounds of nature as the sun sets and darkness approaches.

* In silence listen to your breathing. Get a sense of the silent rhythm of life.

* Just before retiring go outside and look up at the night sky. You will soon sense another universal rhythm so unfamiliar to many. Let the night sky and the darkness embrace you and calm you as you prepare for a night's rest.

* When you read a book, do so in silence. Many of us read to music or during television commercials. Try silence. You'll grow to love it.

Soon you will begin to cherish the periods of silence you have built into your day and long for more. You will quickly discover that you are becoming more relaxed and less tense even in the midst of our noisy world. You will have made an invaluable new friend of silence, a friend which can comfort, heal and soothe your spirit. What a gift you will have given yourself.

Be still and know the restorative power of silence.

For More books from Mike

My Most Popular True Story... The Magic of...

2011-04-07T14:53:00.000-04:00

Story...The Magic of the Night Sky

I love the night sky. There is something comforting, mysterious and hopeful about standing under a canopy of swirling stars. Each summer I go camping alone in Canada's beautiful northland to satisfy a hunger for solitude, wilderness and the night sky. Away from city lights there is nothing more awe inspiring than a star studded sky in the stillness of the wilderness.

I usually set up camp beside a lonely northern lake providing me with a long horizon and an uninterrupted view of the heavens. As darkness approaches I begin to sense an overwhelming closeness to the mysteries of the universe and a strong connection to the source of all that is. I become aware of an alternate rhythm to life - a rhythm which is so easily lost amidst the frenetic pace of contemporary existence. Embraced by darkness, with stars too numerous to count and comforted by the gentle lapping of the waves I begin to realize how much I miss living in a city with its incessant, invasive brightness. It is as if I am rediscovering an enormous part of a lost spiritual heritage.

When sleep begins to engulf me and my eyes start to close, I reluctantly move toward my camper not wanting to miss a moment of this celestial display but realizing that I can't resist the call to slumber any longer. In the warmth of my sleeping bag I let the silence and stillness lull me to sleep with the immortal words of Sophocles gently echoing across the centuries, " Mortal I know I am, short lived. Yet whenever I stand beneath a multitude of swirling stars I no longer tread this earth, but rise to feast with God and enjoy the food of the immortals." And so to sleep.

Mike Moore is an international speaker and writer on human potential and humor. You are invited to check out his books, tapes, special reports and manuals HERE

Stories don't have to be long to be effective....example

2011-04-07T11:23:00.002-04:00

I couldn't believe my eyes when I read this story in the
newspaper.

A young mother had registered with her little baby for the
mother and infant swim at the community pool.

During the first session her baby let her know that she needed to be fed so the mom left the main pool to find a private spot to feed her little one. She found an area close to the wading pool and began breast feeding.

Well someone nearby was offended and reported the crime to the
pool manager who sent a life guard to investigate.

The young man approached the pair and said, " I'm sorry but
there is no food or drink allowed at pool side."

Can you believe it?

I use this story in my presentations on perceptions, attitudes and beliefs.

For more on the art of storytelling

Become a Great Storyteller

2011-04-05T08:01:00.000-04:00

Become a Storyteller People Want to Listen To

Anyone who has heard me speak knows that I'm a big time believer in the art and power of storytelling. Every speech I deliver is generously laced with stories that amuse, inform, entertain and challenge my audiences.

Ever since we were young children we've had a hunger for stories and this hunger does not vanish with age. I read recently that we, as adults, listen to over 100,000 stories a year and I have no difficulty believing it. I think the number is actually higher when you consider that one phone call from a friend can contain over a dozen stories.

If I were asked to identify the secret to successful public speaking I would say, without hesitation, the ability to tell a great story.

Storytelling isn't just vital to public speakers, it is a very important skill to have in any social situation.

To learn more about how you can master the captivating art of storytelling in your personal and professional life visit my storytelling website.

This Story Proves that You Can't Please Everyone

2011-04-04T15:12:00.002-04:00

Impossible to Please Everyone

Long ago on a small farm outside a remote country village
there lived a father and son who grew and sold vegetables to earn their
living.

Each Saturday morning they would take their produce, by
donkey, to the local market about 2 miles away.

One Saturday morning they both rode the donkey with the produce on their backs. The people on route looked at the father and son on the donkey and said, "Look at the two of them riding that poor donkey to market. How lazy they are."

The next Saturday the father rode the donkey and the son
walked. Once again the people on route said, " Look at that
lazy father riding while his poor son walks to market."

On the next trip the son rode the donkey and the
father walked and again the people said, " Look at that lazy boy
riding the donkey to market while his poor father walks."

The father and son decided to do something different the
following Saturday. They both carried the donkey tied by its feet
to a pole placed on their shoulders.

On their way to market they overheard the people say, " Look
how they treat that poor donkey and they had the local
constable charge the father and son with cruelty to animals.

For more on the art of storytelling visit
http://motivationalplus.com/cgi/a/t.cgi?storytelling

New Healthcare Cartoon

2011-04-03T08:34:00.002-04:00

This is from my Healthcare Humor book, " Isn't that the Truth"

Also available on Amazon Kindle

New Motivational Cartoon

2011-04-02T22:44:00.001-04:00

" A pat on the back is the best motivator."

More Motivational Cartoons

This was seen on a bulletin board when I entered the venue to speak

2011-04-02T12:10:00.001-04:00

I was recently invited to speak to a group of women on Managing Stress Using Humor.
As I entered the building I noticed their staff bulletin board to my right.

I ALWAYS read bulletin board items because they give me a good idea of the workplace culture I'll be working in.

This item was there in plain sight. I liked it, wrote it down and started sharing it with every woman's group I speak to.

It always goes over well.

Here it is.... If anyone knows the author let me know and I will definitely give credit.

When we were young you made me blush.
Turn hot then cold and turn to mush.
I still find all these things are true...
BUT IS IT MENOPAUSE OR YOU?

For STRESSED OUT MOMS

New cartoon plus cute oneliner

2011-03-31T08:56:00.000-04:00

" 5 year old watching his Grandpa taking out his false teeth: " WOW, that was great. Now let me see you take off your nose."

New cartoon

New workplace cartoon with a lot of truth to it.

2011-03-28T10:11:00.003-04:00

Hope you like this one. Mike

I Did it on Amazon Kindle

2011-03-27T09:47:00.000-04:00

Well I finally did it. I took three of my best sellers and put them on Amazon Kindle. It wasn't that difficult. You can check them out here.

More will follow.

Check out my video on Stress Management and Humor

2011-03-25T20:47:00.002-04:00

This talk was given to a group of community managers. The topic... Managing Stress Using Humor and Attitude. Take a look

Top Ten Things You NEVER Say to the Woman in Your Life

2011-03-24T21:43:00.000-04:00

1. How about a treadmill for your birthday?
2. That fit you last year. Didn't it?
3. Let's face it Honey, the scales don't lie.
4. Do you ever stop talking?
5. What do you do all day?
6. Is that your third cookie?
7. You have the legs of a 25 year old model...from the knees down.
8. Are you going out in that?
9. Is your Mother coming for a visit again this year?
10. That's quite a paunch you've got there

The lesson in this is Think before you open your manly mouth.

New Office Cartoon

2011-03-23T20:39:00.002-04:00

Isn't it interesting how many people in leadership positions change when they get a little power?

Verbal Self Defence

Sitting by the ocean

2011-03-16T22:10:00.000-04:00

Sitting by the ocean today here in North Myrtle Beach I was reminded of the words of Gibran, " The sea never sleeps and in its vigil there is consolation for the restless soul." I could stay here forever. It is that peaceful and comforting.

New cartoon on relationships

2011-03-13T11:40:00.002-04:00

How to Overcome the Fear of Speaking in Public in Just 30 Days

2011-03-08T09:02:00.003-05:00

I am offering all my blog readers a chance to order my new ebook " The Art of Fearless Speaking" for a great price. If you're tired of being tongue tied every time you have to speak in front of others then this is for you. Check it out here.

A Photo that Proves That Humor is Everywhere

2011-03-05T08:05:00.004-05:00

I looked out our hotel window and there it was...our laugh for the night. Sheer gift. Enjoy. Click Here to view.

Cartoon: You Know You're Stressed Out When...

2011-03-02T22:12:00.002-05:00

The best thing you can do for your health and well being is learn the art of stress management Click here

NEW CARTOON:Parenting Teenagers and Staying Sane

2011-02-26T13:13:00.004-05:00

Hi to all. I have a real deal for you parents of teenagers. I have put my popular ebook " How to Parent Teenagers and Stay Sane" on sale for only $6.00 For only six dollars you get get two parenting /family related bonus ebooks. Check them out here.

The Lost Treasure Returns...A TRUE STORY

2011-02-13T10:53:00.003-05:00

Many years ago I had the pleasure of teaching a
young woman who was one of the most gifted high school seniors
I have ever met. Not only was she brilliant in Math and
Science, but she was also extremely talented in the visual
arts. She could draw and paint beautifully. When Audrey
graduated from university she did so with two degrees, one in
fine arts and one in biochemistry. Not too many people shine
brilliantly in two such different areas of study. She was
gifted.

Just before her highschool graduation Audrey presented
me with a wonderful gift. It was a water colour painting of a
mother and her infant. A tear fell from the mother’s eye as
she looked lovingly at her precious child. Beneath the
painting Audrey had written these words: “The love of God
becomes real when, through me, it touches another.” What a
beautiful gift from such a sensitive, talented woman. I
immediately had the piece of art framed and hung in my office.

Years passed with many moves from one office to
another. Somewhere in the process of changing locations I lost
the painting of the mother and child. I had no idea how I lost
it or where it was and had given up hope of ever seeing it
again.

A couple of years ago after about eight years of not
knowing where my treasured painting was, I received a phone
call from a former colleague who said she had something of
mine she thought I would like returned. It was the picture
Audrey had painted for me years earlier. In cleaning out a
storage room she had discovered my gift. I promise I won’t
lose it a second time

When I reflect on what happened to my painting I am
struck by how precious gifts, when lost, have a way of finding
their way back to the people who treasure them the most. To
any other the painting was just that, a painting. To me it
spoke of a creative, intelligent, generous woman who gave her
talent to me in appreciation for our paths crossing and
connecting. Because of this obvious connection it found its
way home to me. I have discovered this to be true of people as
well. When you really love another, and you appear to lose
them, they tend to find their way back to your love even if it
takes years to do so. So we live in hope

I haven’t heard from Audrey in many years, but I know
that she will come back into my life in some way. We will meet again.

Mike Moore is a speaker and writer on human potential,
motivation and humour. You are invited to visit him online at
www.motivationalplus.com

How to Avoid Getting Old Just $10.00

2011-02-07T10:38:00.004-05:00

Hi to all. I have adjusted the price of a download copy of my in-demand book " How to Avoid Getting Old No Matter How Long You Live" It sells out at every time I speak.

Check it out here and download a copy for only $10.00

I know you'll love it.

2 Free Books on Humor in the Workplace

2011-02-01T16:47:00.004-05:00

Hi. I would like to offer you, free of charge, two of my very popular e-books, Thank God It's Monday and Let the Laughter Begin ( 18 workplace cartoons)
To access your copies visit here

New Cartoon for You Parents of Teenagers

2011-01-27T12:19:00.004-05:00

Check out my ebook 25 Ways to Parent Teenagers and Stay Sane

New Health Cartoon

2011-01-19T11:40:00.002-05:00

For More Health related cartoons

New Cartoon for Teachers

2011-01-13T11:45:00.003-05:00

Check out my Teacher Boosting Kit

Cartoon Locating Deadbeat Dads

2010-12-31T11:24:00.005-05:00

For more cartoons to illustrate your talks, newsletters, website etc. Click Here

They Who Laugh, Last

2010-12-16T15:56:00.004-05:00

I just returned from a week in beautiful St. Lucia. Now back to the ice and snow. While I did love the tropics it was difficult to get into the Christmas spirit sitting under a palm tree sweating profusely.

For more cartoons visit here

New Stress Cartoon

2010-11-20T21:45:00.002-05:00

Here's a stress cartoon for your enjoyment. For more Click Here

New Cartoon to Give Your Life a Lift

2010-11-04T19:40:00.004-04:00

Check out my popular cartoon collections. When you purchase a collection you receive each cartoon as a ready to use jpeg file. Permission is granted to use the cartoons in your presentations or publications.

Taming the Toxic People in Your Life

2010-10-15T10:40:00.005-04:00

In my travels across North America speaking on motivation and human potential I hear the same question asked repeatedly, " How can I become more assertive?" There is no doubt about it, there are people in our lives who are harmful to our health and we don't like it one bit.

I read recently that toxic people make up about ten percent of the population and cause over 50 percent of all relational damage. For our own well-being and the well-being of those we care about we must learn how to cope with these toxic people at home, at work and at play.

I wrote the following report in response to the question, "How can I learn to cope with the difficult people in my life?" From the reaction I have had to this report it is proving helpful. I do want to say emphatically that what you read here won't do a thing to improve your situation unless you have the courage to use the suggestions given. Go for it! You're worth the effort.

TOXIC PEOPLE.........

rob us of our dignity.

destroy our self confidence.

increase our stress levels.

destroy our morale.

erode our self esteem.

foster negativity.

decrease productivity.

make life hellish.

are abusive.

are toxic because they can get away with it and it works for them.

HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXIC PEOPLE

Remember that you can't change toxic people, but you can learn to cope with them. Here are some effective strategies to try.

* Always stand at eye level with the person you are confronting. Never have them standing over you looking down.

* Respect the toxic person and always expect respect in return. Settle for nothing less.

* Remain calm.

* Listen attentively.

* Don't argue or interrupt, just listen.

* Don't accuse or judge, just state how you feel.

* If the toxic person tries to verbally bully you, just say, " I don't allow people to treat me this way." Then slowly and calmly walk away.

* When someone is being toxic to you here is a powerful response and one that is easy to use because you don't have to say a word. In the midst of a toxic attack just PAUSE....LOOK AT THE PERSON, WITHOUT EMOTION......TURN AND WALK AWAY. It works!

* Anger is sometimes a valid response.

* If all else fails you might be left with only one option; to separate yourself from the toxic person in your life.

YOU DON'T EXIST TO BE SOMEONE'S PERSONAL GARBAGE DUMP.

This is an excerpt from Mike's manual DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE. MORE HERE

How to Avoid Getting Old No Matter How Long You Live

2010-10-13T12:06:00.005-04:00

To hell with aging gracefully I want to age humorously and FUNfully with a fantastic attitude!!

If you're one of the JOYLESS MULTITUDES who find yourself...

getting out of bed in the morning to the sound of creaking, stiff joints,

thinking that you have more sidewalk behind you than ahead of you,

fearing the END,worrying about when, not if, you'll get cancer,

and thinking that you're over the hill and too old to cut the mustard? ( Whatever that means)

Then YOU'VE GOT TO PUT A STOP TO IT RIGHT NOW!!!

My best selling ebook " How to Avoid Getting Old No Matter How Long You Live " will be coming out as a hard cover within the next month. I think every person over the age of 40 should read this little book. For a sample of what you get for UNDER $15.00VISIT HERE

New Cartoon to Give Your Life a Lift

2010-10-10T11:20:00.003-04:00

For more original cartoons designed to give your life a lift and a laugh VISIT HERE

Have you ever noticed this????

2010-10-02T10:50:00.003-04:00

I was listening to a group of teenagers talking at a coffee shop and was inspired to draw this cartoon. What ever happened to fluid speech?

For many more family cartoons visit here

Texting in the Classroom

2010-09-29T16:15:00.003-04:00

I hope you enjoy this one. Mike

For more cartoons for teachers CLICK HERE

Give your life a lift and a laugh

2010-09-11T12:15:00.005-04:00

For more workplace cartoons

I Love this Quotation

2010-08-28T20:45:00.003-04:00

Someday after we have mastered the energies of wind, waves,tide and gravity we will harness, for God, the energies of love and for the second time in human history we will have discovered fire. Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

The Transforming Power of Stories

2010-08-16T07:56:00.005-04:00

As many of you know I am a professional speaker and committed storyteller. I doesn't matter who your audience is or how old they are they'll love you if you tell them stories.

You could be in a bar or at a house party telling a humorous or profound story, the fact is always the same... people love to tell and be told stories.

Notice that I stressed the words tell and told when referring to how stories are delivered. I did not use the word read. Anyone can read a story ( some better than others) but not everyone can tell a great story.

When you tell a story you make it your own. You can add or subtract details and add texture and suspense with your voice, gestures and facial expressions. In short you become an actor in your own drama and if you really know what you're doing you can have the audience in the palm of your hand in no time.

It is important to remember that we human beings have an insatiable appetite for stories. From the time we were children when we constantly asked our parents to,
"Tell me a story" until the present time nothing has changed. We love to listen to and tell stories.

Life is filled with experiences and when we share these experiences we are telling stories. When we listen to the experiences of others we are sharing their stories. Can you imagine life without stories? What would we talk about?

To validate this human hunger for stories all you have to do is observe what happens when you meet an old friend you haven't seen for some time. The first thing you want to do is find out what they've been up to. This is a request to be told stories.

This natural hunger for stories provides speakers, teachers, managers, parents and friends and with a powerful magnetic tool to connect with and hold peoples' interest and attention.

Stories inform, entertain and grab peoples' attention. Use them often and effectively and watch people come alive in your presence.

To obtain 5 Life Lesson Stories for use in lessons, presentations, conversations or with your childrem visit here.

If you ever need a fun speaker with a HUGE message Visit Here

Free Stress Busting mp3 Audio

2010-08-11T08:12:00.004-04:00

I would like to give you a FREE copy of the interview I did recently with Premier Summits. They interviewed 20 top authorities on Stress Management and I was pleased to be among them.
If you are interested in downloading a copy and learning about my HA Principle in managing stress Click Here Thanks. Mike

Free Copy of The Healing and Bonding Power of Laughter

2010-07-25T10:29:00.002-04:00

Hi. I'd like to offer you all a Free copy of my powerful life changing e-book " The Healing and Bonding Power of Laughter" Get it here. With thanks. Mike

How to Be Humorous and Entertaining in Any Situation

2010-07-18T15:29:00.006-04:00

People often ask me if being humorous is something they can learn and I always answer with a resounding,"YES!!" Being humorous and entertaining can be learned and in a very short time too. If you're interested why not take a look at my e-book on the subject. You can find it here and as always I kept my price low and piled on the bonus items for you. Mike